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Copyright © 2009 Frank Pines
Today Linux is a very potent tool for a successful project in a highly competitive marketplace.
With its certification programs, the Linux Professional Institute (LPI) has constantly raised the bar of excellence. It has continuously provided support to Linux professionals to meet the industry demands for expert skills. LPI has been acknowledged universally as a leader in providing professional help with Linux, Open Source, and Free Software.
The Linux Professional Institute Certification (LPIC) program has been designed to recognize the capabilities of IT professionals, who have proven themselves capable of operating within the Linux operating system. These certificates are distributed to computer professionals in hundreds of cities around the world.
LPI intends to develop and recognize important Linux and Open Source talent around the globe, by providing complete and high standard tests.
LPI offers a formal and standardized program both for students and training centers alike. These programs improve the quality of market and also arm the students with powerful certifications that can be used to enhance their career prospects.
The LPI Certification Program has been developed by Linux professionals and IT institutions, around the world. The Linux Professional Institute depends on the response reports it receives from many of the skilled professionals, who work with Linux each and every day.
Interestingly, the Linux Professional Institute is independent of vendors and has no commitment bias in regard to its service. This has led to diverse and multiple techniques to the general design of the test. It has become one of the most comprehensive and global exams presented anywhere in the world.
The LPI certificate is one of the most respected and requested job requirements, among computer professionals and major organizations, for applicants seeking IT jobs. Many independent companies, outside of LPI, have enhanced the Linux certification program and this is possible because there is no totalitarian authority controlling the Linux operating system.
The vital distinction between LPI and other such programs is that, LPI has been incorporated as entirely vendor-independent and distribution neutral.
The largest corporations in the world have recognized the exam standard and the tests have become a reflection of the standards these corporations expect from their professional IT staffers.
The LPI certification is based on three levels:
Junior Level Administration (LPIC-1): this level consists of two tests the 101 and the 102. They can be taken in any order. This level expects you to work at the command line, execute fundamental maintenance, and set up a workstation with a connection to a network.
Advanced Level Administration (LPIC-2): the candidate needs to pass the 201 and 202 exams to qualify at this level. These tests can also be taken in any order. Also the candidate has to pass the Junior Level Test. You will need to govern an average-sized website by using Linux or Microsoft servers. You will also oversee your juniors and then report to senior management.
Senior Level Administration (LPIC-3): LPI's Certification Program concludes with the LPIC-3 exam. The test papers are 301 and 302.
The LPI exams are computer-based tests done through Pearson VUE and Prometric. LPI exams are also provided in Japanese, German, Chinese, French, Portuguese and Spanish. It takes about two to five weeks to get the actual LPI certificate, after notification of your pass status.
About the Author:
Written by Frank Pines of CDI Communications Inc. - CDI Communications is a leader in implementation of instructional strategies for MCSE, AutoCAD, Sap, Skillsoft, CCNA, MCTS, Cisco, MCITP, MCTS, Microsoft Office, Oracle, Crystal Report, Knowledgenet, SAP, NetG, A+ Training and Linux LPI Certification. Visit CDI Communications Inc. at: http://www.netwind.com/ OR follow Frank on Twitter at: @cdicomp
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Saturday, July 11, 2009
When It Comes to Business Names, Acronyms Are FUBAR
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Copyright © 2009 Marcia Yudkin
Maybe you'll read the following sentence as it was intended, but I sure didn't. It was the lead sentence in an article in my local business journal:
"CA is a fundamentally different company than it was when I arrived two years ago."
To me, "CA" means California, and that's how I read it. But when I reached the end of that sentence, that obviously did not make sense. Then I thought, "Must be a misprint - they left a letter out - but what?" Only in the fourth paragraph of the article did my bafflement clear up. "We simplified 'Computer Associates' to 'CA' and brought the 'C' and 'A' on our brand mark closer together."
"Oh my gosh, 'CA' is a company name?!" Too bad you couldn't see the expression on my face.
This illustrates one of the problems in creating a company name out of letters. With just about any combination of letters you choose, the acronym is probably already in use somewhere. Indeed, CA is also in use for Cocaine Anonymous, as well as an abbreviation for Canada. On the web, a new company name consisting of an acronym will be impossible for the average person to get useful results for from a search engine.
According to the Web Directory All Acronyms, the letters NSA stand for more than 100 different entities, including No Such Agency. Incorporating an acronym as part of a longer name doesn't resolve the issue of multiple meanings. For example, if you named your company SME Services, thinking of "Small and Medium-sized Enterprises," SME could still call up more than 60 other meanings in common usage, including Subject Matter Expertise and Solid Metal Embrittlement.
Second, because acronyms have no self-evident meaning, they require a very heavy investment of resources to become recognizable and memorable as a company name. True, the now-global fast-food company KFC has done well with its initials by trading on its previous incarnation as Kentucky Fried Chicken. But unless you're also serving more than a billion customers a year with a marketing budget to match, that shouldn't encourage you to follow their example.
And third, acronyms invite ridicule. There are scores of jokes purporting to explain what the letters in IBM really mean:
I've Been Moved (because of the company's relocation policy)
I've Been Misled
It's a Broken Machine
Immoral Brand and Management
I Blame Mathematics
Idiots Became Managers
Imbecilic Bad Micros
Invented By Murphy
and on and on.
Perhaps because we dislike how we tend to be treated by governmental and technical acronym-named organizations, many of us find acronyms geeky and off-putting rather than cuddly and comforting. "Acronyms tend to keep non-experts at arm's length," wrote language critic Amy Gahran in 2003. For example, "the original full name for RSS [which most people believe stands for Really Simple Syndication] is 'RDF Site Summary' - a nested acronym that requires two levels of decoding, and it gets geekier at the second level," Gahran noted.
Most of the time, keeping people at arm's length is not a desirable state of affairs or a goal for a new company name. So ditch the acronyms.
By the way, in case you're wondering what "FUBAR" means, since before World War Two it's been an American military expression for the more vulgar version of "Fouled Up Beyond All Recognition."
About the Author:
Marcia Yudkin is Head Stork of Named At Last, a company that brainstorms creative business names, product names and tag lines for clients. For a systematic process of coming up with an appealing and effective name or tag line, download a free copy of "19 Steps to the Perfect Company Name, Product Name or Tag Line" at http://www.namedatlast.com/19steps.htm
Read more Articles written by Marcia Yudkin.
Copyright © 2009 Marcia Yudkin
Maybe you'll read the following sentence as it was intended, but I sure didn't. It was the lead sentence in an article in my local business journal:
"CA is a fundamentally different company than it was when I arrived two years ago."
To me, "CA" means California, and that's how I read it. But when I reached the end of that sentence, that obviously did not make sense. Then I thought, "Must be a misprint - they left a letter out - but what?" Only in the fourth paragraph of the article did my bafflement clear up. "We simplified 'Computer Associates' to 'CA' and brought the 'C' and 'A' on our brand mark closer together."
"Oh my gosh, 'CA' is a company name?!" Too bad you couldn't see the expression on my face.
This illustrates one of the problems in creating a company name out of letters. With just about any combination of letters you choose, the acronym is probably already in use somewhere. Indeed, CA is also in use for Cocaine Anonymous, as well as an abbreviation for Canada. On the web, a new company name consisting of an acronym will be impossible for the average person to get useful results for from a search engine.
According to the Web Directory All Acronyms, the letters NSA stand for more than 100 different entities, including No Such Agency. Incorporating an acronym as part of a longer name doesn't resolve the issue of multiple meanings. For example, if you named your company SME Services, thinking of "Small and Medium-sized Enterprises," SME could still call up more than 60 other meanings in common usage, including Subject Matter Expertise and Solid Metal Embrittlement.
Second, because acronyms have no self-evident meaning, they require a very heavy investment of resources to become recognizable and memorable as a company name. True, the now-global fast-food company KFC has done well with its initials by trading on its previous incarnation as Kentucky Fried Chicken. But unless you're also serving more than a billion customers a year with a marketing budget to match, that shouldn't encourage you to follow their example.
And third, acronyms invite ridicule. There are scores of jokes purporting to explain what the letters in IBM really mean:
Perhaps because we dislike how we tend to be treated by governmental and technical acronym-named organizations, many of us find acronyms geeky and off-putting rather than cuddly and comforting. "Acronyms tend to keep non-experts at arm's length," wrote language critic Amy Gahran in 2003. For example, "the original full name for RSS [which most people believe stands for Really Simple Syndication] is 'RDF Site Summary' - a nested acronym that requires two levels of decoding, and it gets geekier at the second level," Gahran noted.
Most of the time, keeping people at arm's length is not a desirable state of affairs or a goal for a new company name. So ditch the acronyms.
By the way, in case you're wondering what "FUBAR" means, since before World War Two it's been an American military expression for the more vulgar version of "Fouled Up Beyond All Recognition."
About the Author:
Marcia Yudkin is Head Stork of Named At Last, a company that brainstorms creative business names, product names and tag lines for clients. For a systematic process of coming up with an appealing and effective name or tag line, download a free copy of "19 Steps to the Perfect Company Name, Product Name or Tag Line" at http://www.namedatlast.com/19steps.htm
Read more Articles written by Marcia Yudkin.
Friday, July 10, 2009
The Day My Daughter Woke Me Up to See That Her Father Never Really Loved Me
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Copyright © 2009 Mary Ann Lipitz
I am 31 years old with two children, and I was in a relationship with the man I loved until two years ago. We were not married but we lived together, and yes he is the father of my children.
We had been together for more than five years at that point, but we never felt the need to get married. We had been happy the way things were, until one day my daughter changed all that, at least for me.
I was preparing dinner when suddenly my first born daughter asked, "Where did you and dad get married?" I couldn't answer her at first, then I said your dad and I are not married.
I felt a bit ashamed to say that to my daughter, and I could see the confusion on her face. That's how I knew it was time for change.
The man I loved and the man I thought loved me also didn't feel the same way.
It's amazing how a woman and a man can be so different when they are in a relationship, and it's very painful when one member of the couple doesn't love the other as much as the first loves him or her.
That's what happened. I assumed that since I loved him so much, I thought that he loved me as much also. I was so wrong.
I found out that in a relationship, two people can be loving towards each other, but not always in the same capacity.
One would be willing to sacrifice everything for his or her partner, while the other may not always be so willing.
This is so painful for me, but one has to realize that one can never really own a person - no matter what you do or give.
It's heartbreaking, but one has to be prepared for this to happen, when you are in a relationship. I wasn't prepared for it to happen to me, but I had to be strong for my children.
I thank God for my daughter everyday, after I left her father, for showing me what kind of man her father really was.
I was so blinded by my love for him that I lost sight of the strength of his love for me - or lack thereof. I didn't notice that my love was not being reciprocated, or maybe I tried not to notice, as long as I was able to be with him.
I guess, in a relationship or not, a woman or a man must be wise enough to know if he or she is loved and being shown that love.
It's not enough that "I love you" is said every now and then, but what's right is that it should be said from the heart, not because it's what the other wants to hear... When in a relationship, you should love and be loved in return.
Don't settle for anything less than that... You'll only get hurt if you do settle for less.
It took me five years to learn that lesson. Hopefully, you will keep my words in mind, before such a thing happens to you in your life.
About the Author:
Mary Ann Lipitz is the mother of three beautiful daughters. Since leaving her husband, she has rejoined the dating community, seeking the love of her life. For online dating, she uses http://www.nsadatingsite.com/ among others.
Read more of Mary Ann Lipitz's articles.
Copyright © 2009 Mary Ann Lipitz
I am 31 years old with two children, and I was in a relationship with the man I loved until two years ago. We were not married but we lived together, and yes he is the father of my children.
We had been together for more than five years at that point, but we never felt the need to get married. We had been happy the way things were, until one day my daughter changed all that, at least for me.
I was preparing dinner when suddenly my first born daughter asked, "Where did you and dad get married?" I couldn't answer her at first, then I said your dad and I are not married.
I felt a bit ashamed to say that to my daughter, and I could see the confusion on her face. That's how I knew it was time for change.
The man I loved and the man I thought loved me also didn't feel the same way.
It's amazing how a woman and a man can be so different when they are in a relationship, and it's very painful when one member of the couple doesn't love the other as much as the first loves him or her.
That's what happened. I assumed that since I loved him so much, I thought that he loved me as much also. I was so wrong.
I found out that in a relationship, two people can be loving towards each other, but not always in the same capacity.
One would be willing to sacrifice everything for his or her partner, while the other may not always be so willing.
This is so painful for me, but one has to realize that one can never really own a person - no matter what you do or give.
It's heartbreaking, but one has to be prepared for this to happen, when you are in a relationship. I wasn't prepared for it to happen to me, but I had to be strong for my children.
I thank God for my daughter everyday, after I left her father, for showing me what kind of man her father really was.
I was so blinded by my love for him that I lost sight of the strength of his love for me - or lack thereof. I didn't notice that my love was not being reciprocated, or maybe I tried not to notice, as long as I was able to be with him.
I guess, in a relationship or not, a woman or a man must be wise enough to know if he or she is loved and being shown that love.
It's not enough that "I love you" is said every now and then, but what's right is that it should be said from the heart, not because it's what the other wants to hear... When in a relationship, you should love and be loved in return.
Don't settle for anything less than that... You'll only get hurt if you do settle for less.
It took me five years to learn that lesson. Hopefully, you will keep my words in mind, before such a thing happens to you in your life.
About the Author:
Mary Ann Lipitz is the mother of three beautiful daughters. Since leaving her husband, she has rejoined the dating community, seeking the love of her life. For online dating, she uses http://www.nsadatingsite.com/ among others.
Read more of Mary Ann Lipitz's articles.
13 Tips For Saving Money And Reducing Your Cost Of Living
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Copyright © 2009 Fred Vanhoosen
During this current economic downturn, people are rediscovering how to save money during hard times. In this article, we document thirteen of the most useful tips for helping you and your family save money and reduce your overall expenses.
While it is true that there are two ways to regain control of your personal finances (1. Cut costs; and 2. Increase income), the saving money part is far easier for most people to accomplish. If in fact you are seeking out new sources of income to supplement your current income, you should review this article (http://tinyurl.com/lnm282) that shows you where you can find telecommuting jobs online.
If you are looking for a job, then find a job. But if you are looking to discover old and new ways to save money, then read the thirteen money saving tips shown here:
1. Do you find yourself reading more news online and only reading the paper for comics or coupons? Then bookmark both a comics website and printable coupons site (like coupons.com) and cancel the newspaper. Save paper and money on delivery.
2. Don't buy it unless you know that you will use it for certain. The "this might be handy" purchases can drain money and closet space, when you find that the maybe situations don't come up.
3. Some utility companies give the option of installing a power meter that shows you energy consumption for the entire house at any given moment. This constant awareness of the consumption rate can lead home owners to cut back, where a monthly bill might not be enough motivation.
4. Get rid of the garbage disposal. It encourages you to get rid of waste by dumping it down the sink. If you have to put it in the trash, you have a stronger visual signal of how much food was wasted, and thus a better reason to either eat the food or not fix as much. This also saves water, since garbage disposals require water to work appropriately. It is best to compost, but even putting it in the trash is better than putting it down the sink and wasting both food and water at the same time.
5. You're thinking of planting a garden. Although ease of growing and food preferences are factors, don't forget to pick plants or plant varieties that require little water, fertilizer, and pesticides.
6. Take your shoes off inside the house. It reduces wear and tear on shoes, which are more expensive than socks, and reduces the scuff marks you have to clean up.
7. Like an exercise program? Ask about becoming an assistant instructor or motivator. It would most likely be free to do, but even if the venue wants to charge you money to be an assistant, you can likely get the classes at a reduced cost.
8. Only get magnetic bumper stickers. There's no clean up necessary when you change your mind, you can put it on your fridge or work cubicle at a whim, and can be removed in locations where such sentiments can get your car keyed.
9. Gambling never makes money, so do not go into a casino unless you work there.
10. If you indulge in "retail therapy", shopping for a pick me up, look for a job as a mystery shopper. And then do not go into the store unless paid to do so. At the very least, only shop when someone else is paying for the merchandise.
11. If you are in debt, don't touch the alcohol - unless you're serving it to someone else. This is a vice that is doubly crucial to contain, since we often do stupid things under the influence of alcohol. From drunk driving (and expensive tickets) to purchases and conversations we would not make when sober (both physically and emotionally costly). When the financial stress begins to mount, step away from the alcohol. This will certainly save your budget, and possibly far, far more.
12. Do not drink the coffee unless it is fueling your night shift job, and thus is a justifiable business expense. Even in this case, skip the Starbucks latte for Dunkin Donuts or McDonald's coffee. Better yet, make your own coffee and brown bag it in a thermos to work to save even more money. And having your own coffee at hand can reduce the temptation to buy a snack while already in line to buy the coffee.
13. True emergencies are defined by something physical being broken: your bones, your car, your roof. We often think of an emotional disaster as an emergency, and then spend part of our emergency fund to make it better. Don't break into your financial piggy bank when something physical isn't broken. Broken hearts because you won't go on a cruise with someone or mall trip for the weekend do not count. Breaking the mold and expectations - like not sending the kids on a summer camp when you are worried about paying the credit card bill - are completely acceptable. Redefine your emergencies for which you touch your emergency fund.
While it may seem like all is lost right now in your time of need, it is important to always keep a positive mental attitude. Stress kills, and besides, it is easier to uncover the good times that await you if you are in a good mood now and into the future.
About the Author:
Fred Vanhoosen writes about money issues. While he recommends that one should be careful about using payday loans in times of dire need, he also knows that sometimes we need fast access to fast money to cover an unexpected expense. When that happens, Fred recommends http://www.fastcash4all.net/ for your cash advance needs.
Read more Articles written by Fred Vanhoosen.
Copyright © 2009 Fred Vanhoosen
During this current economic downturn, people are rediscovering how to save money during hard times. In this article, we document thirteen of the most useful tips for helping you and your family save money and reduce your overall expenses.
While it is true that there are two ways to regain control of your personal finances (1. Cut costs; and 2. Increase income), the saving money part is far easier for most people to accomplish. If in fact you are seeking out new sources of income to supplement your current income, you should review this article (http://tinyurl.com/lnm282) that shows you where you can find telecommuting jobs online.
If you are looking for a job, then find a job. But if you are looking to discover old and new ways to save money, then read the thirteen money saving tips shown here:
1. Do you find yourself reading more news online and only reading the paper for comics or coupons? Then bookmark both a comics website and printable coupons site (like coupons.com) and cancel the newspaper. Save paper and money on delivery.
2. Don't buy it unless you know that you will use it for certain. The "this might be handy" purchases can drain money and closet space, when you find that the maybe situations don't come up.
3. Some utility companies give the option of installing a power meter that shows you energy consumption for the entire house at any given moment. This constant awareness of the consumption rate can lead home owners to cut back, where a monthly bill might not be enough motivation.
4. Get rid of the garbage disposal. It encourages you to get rid of waste by dumping it down the sink. If you have to put it in the trash, you have a stronger visual signal of how much food was wasted, and thus a better reason to either eat the food or not fix as much. This also saves water, since garbage disposals require water to work appropriately. It is best to compost, but even putting it in the trash is better than putting it down the sink and wasting both food and water at the same time.
5. You're thinking of planting a garden. Although ease of growing and food preferences are factors, don't forget to pick plants or plant varieties that require little water, fertilizer, and pesticides.
6. Take your shoes off inside the house. It reduces wear and tear on shoes, which are more expensive than socks, and reduces the scuff marks you have to clean up.
7. Like an exercise program? Ask about becoming an assistant instructor or motivator. It would most likely be free to do, but even if the venue wants to charge you money to be an assistant, you can likely get the classes at a reduced cost.
8. Only get magnetic bumper stickers. There's no clean up necessary when you change your mind, you can put it on your fridge or work cubicle at a whim, and can be removed in locations where such sentiments can get your car keyed.
9. Gambling never makes money, so do not go into a casino unless you work there.
10. If you indulge in "retail therapy", shopping for a pick me up, look for a job as a mystery shopper. And then do not go into the store unless paid to do so. At the very least, only shop when someone else is paying for the merchandise.
11. If you are in debt, don't touch the alcohol - unless you're serving it to someone else. This is a vice that is doubly crucial to contain, since we often do stupid things under the influence of alcohol. From drunk driving (and expensive tickets) to purchases and conversations we would not make when sober (both physically and emotionally costly). When the financial stress begins to mount, step away from the alcohol. This will certainly save your budget, and possibly far, far more.
12. Do not drink the coffee unless it is fueling your night shift job, and thus is a justifiable business expense. Even in this case, skip the Starbucks latte for Dunkin Donuts or McDonald's coffee. Better yet, make your own coffee and brown bag it in a thermos to work to save even more money. And having your own coffee at hand can reduce the temptation to buy a snack while already in line to buy the coffee.
13. True emergencies are defined by something physical being broken: your bones, your car, your roof. We often think of an emotional disaster as an emergency, and then spend part of our emergency fund to make it better. Don't break into your financial piggy bank when something physical isn't broken. Broken hearts because you won't go on a cruise with someone or mall trip for the weekend do not count. Breaking the mold and expectations - like not sending the kids on a summer camp when you are worried about paying the credit card bill - are completely acceptable. Redefine your emergencies for which you touch your emergency fund.
While it may seem like all is lost right now in your time of need, it is important to always keep a positive mental attitude. Stress kills, and besides, it is easier to uncover the good times that await you if you are in a good mood now and into the future.
About the Author:
Fred Vanhoosen writes about money issues. While he recommends that one should be careful about using payday loans in times of dire need, he also knows that sometimes we need fast access to fast money to cover an unexpected expense. When that happens, Fred recommends http://www.fastcash4all.net/ for your cash advance needs.
Read more Articles written by Fred Vanhoosen.
How To Avoid The Pitfalls, Wrong Turns, Broken Hearts Of Online Dating
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Copyright © 2009 Lance Metzger
As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general catastrophes associated with internet wooing.
When you join your first online dating community, you will be required to fill in personal information. Please be honest. You are shorter and fatter than you think.
However, you have to be true to yourself too. Do not embellish your life just because you think that is what the opposite sex wants to hear. If you create a fake persona, you will regret it and look like a liar.
Warning: Prepare To Be Overwhelmed!
After signing up, uploading your picture and answering personal questions, you will be bombarded with images of single people all wanting to be friends with you. It is a heady experience, but it isn't real.
Think of online dating as "an Ebay for your heart." Yeah, there is a lot of stuff on there, but you don't need it all. It's like going to the mall with unlimited credit. Take a deep breath and remember that these are people, not things to be purchased.
Take it slow. Don't act like the greedy kid in Willie Wonka. You are way better than that. Remember that the person you pick to correspond with is also connecting with other people. So, do yourself a favor and don't tell all your friends about this great guy/gal you met. Chances are your new "mate" might not be around in three days and you will look like a desperate loser.
Keep in mind that this is a "dating" website and some people are looking to date many people as possible because, after all, they paid for it.
Take your time to correspond and build up a friendship before you agree to meet someone in person. In the car business, salespeople encourage you to take a test drive to promote in you a feeling of "ownership." If you want a shot at more than just a string of one time coffee dates, you have to do the same. You need to become "real" to the person you are interested in.
Write. Text. Whatever. Let your potential partner see you as a person. Let a friendship grow naturally so when you finally meet it is with a sense of anticipation, not dread. A date will be less likely to dump you on the spot if they are eager to meet you despite your shortcomings, and you will be more likely to overlook their receding hairline or less-than-perfect abs.
Follow All The Safety Rules
Meet in a public place, let a friend know where you will be, and don't give out personal contact information until you are sure that your date is reasonably trustworthy. Bad things don't happen very often, but they do happen.
Don't believe everything your date tells you. Caveat Emptor - Buyer Beware.
Be financially savvy. Dating sites are in this for the money. They offer you the "convenience" of debiting your checking account or credit card every month. Stay aware of when this deduction will occur, or even keep a calendar specifically for this purpose. Cancel your membership if you feel like you have met someone special and no longer need the service, or if you feel like this just isn't working out for you.
Do not let your naysaying friends talk you out of this. In the past, "computer dating" had a negative connotation; happily, I believe that is changing. Users now realize that people on a dating site are busy professionals who don't like meeting potential partners in a more traditional way (i.e., bars). The men aren't creepy weirdos and the women aren't chubby introverts....well, at least, not all of us.
Finally, be realistic. You will never meet the perfect person and you will never be the perfect person. Relax. Readjust your expectations and you and your date will have much more fun. That's what its all about, isn't it?
About the Author:
Lance Metzger writes about relationships, offline and online dating. In our minds, "No Strings Attached" simply means, "Let's get to know one another before we start making any commitments to one another." To explore No Strings Attached dating, please visit the NSA Dating Site at: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/
Read more of Lance Metzger's articles.
Copyright © 2009 Lance Metzger
As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general catastrophes associated with internet wooing.
When you join your first online dating community, you will be required to fill in personal information. Please be honest. You are shorter and fatter than you think.
However, you have to be true to yourself too. Do not embellish your life just because you think that is what the opposite sex wants to hear. If you create a fake persona, you will regret it and look like a liar.
Warning: Prepare To Be Overwhelmed!
After signing up, uploading your picture and answering personal questions, you will be bombarded with images of single people all wanting to be friends with you. It is a heady experience, but it isn't real.
Write. Text. Whatever. Let your potential partner see you as a person. Let a friendship grow naturally so when you finally meet it is with a sense of anticipation, not dread. A date will be less likely to dump you on the spot if they are eager to meet you despite your shortcomings, and you will be more likely to overlook their receding hairline or less-than-perfect abs.
Follow All The Safety Rules
Meet in a public place, let a friend know where you will be, and don't give out personal contact information until you are sure that your date is reasonably trustworthy. Bad things don't happen very often, but they do happen.
Don't believe everything your date tells you. Caveat Emptor - Buyer Beware.
Be financially savvy. Dating sites are in this for the money. They offer you the "convenience" of debiting your checking account or credit card every month. Stay aware of when this deduction will occur, or even keep a calendar specifically for this purpose. Cancel your membership if you feel like you have met someone special and no longer need the service, or if you feel like this just isn't working out for you.
Do not let your naysaying friends talk you out of this. In the past, "computer dating" had a negative connotation; happily, I believe that is changing. Users now realize that people on a dating site are busy professionals who don't like meeting potential partners in a more traditional way (i.e., bars). The men aren't creepy weirdos and the women aren't chubby introverts....well, at least, not all of us.
Finally, be realistic. You will never meet the perfect person and you will never be the perfect person. Relax. Readjust your expectations and you and your date will have much more fun. That's what its all about, isn't it?
About the Author:
Lance Metzger writes about relationships, offline and online dating. In our minds, "No Strings Attached" simply means, "Let's get to know one another before we start making any commitments to one another." To explore No Strings Attached dating, please visit the NSA Dating Site at: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/
Read more of Lance Metzger's articles.
Tips to Help You Get Back in the Dating Game After a Long-Term Relationship Ends
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Copyright © 2009 RoseMary Alberts
There are very few things in life that are as terrifying, frustrating, rewarding, exciting and just plain crazy as dating; especially if you have ceased to be a "spring chicken" or have been out of the dating scene for many years.
If you've found yourself "back on the market" after being in a committed relationship for many years, you may be petrified by the prospect of dating again. The very idea of having to deal with the "new rules," and trying to figure out where, exactly, you go to meet people in the first place, may be enough for you to say "forget it" and opt for diving into the freezer for a pint of Cherry Garcia, and sitting home with the latest episode of 24 instead. But, it doesn't have to be that way!
In spite of what the modern media has drummed into our collective heads, dating really hasn't changed that much over the years. The basics are all still the same; first dates are generally awkward whether you're a gawky teenager or a successful CEO, and first kisses will give you butterflies at 60 just as they did at 16!
What has changed is how people meet each other. Yes, there will always be the old standbys: bars, chance meetings, blind dates (usually set up by well meaning friends or relatives who haven't a clue) and the frequently disastrous workplace romances. But more and more people are turning to the laptop sitting on their coffee table or the computer on their desk to find romance. From the comfort of your easy chair (and with your ice cream nearby) you can open up a whole new realm of dating possibilities!
Since you're reading this we'll assume you have the basics needed for this contemporary dating adventure (a computer and access to the internet) and can get down to where to look for "Mr. (or Ms.) Right":
First, you have the obvious "hunting" ground; internet dating sites. These online matchmakers are as prevalent as ants at a picnic, and cover just about every demographic and social group you can think of. Some require a fee, while others are free to join. Generally prospective daters post pictures and information about themselves and about what they are looking for in a potential partner. Once you join you can review other members and search for someone that strikes your fancy.
Then there are the social media sites like Facebook, Myspace, Linkedin, and Bebo. These sites aren't geared specifically towards dating, but their popularity and ease of use make them a natural place for making connections. Using social media sites can not only re-connect you with friends and family, but you might run into that classmate you had a crush on in 9th grade as well!
A less obvious place to look for love online is amongst the plethora of special interest forums and sites. Whether you an avid golfer, a fan of Joe Walsh, or like to make driftwood sculptures in your spare time, chances are that there is a website dedicated to your particular passion somewhere on the net. What better way to start a relationship than to build on the foundation of a mutual interest?
Of course, there are precautions you should take when venturing into the sphere of online dating, but as with dating in the "real world" most of them are common sense and they apply to both men and women:
#1 - Listen to your instincts. If your "gut" tells you that the person you are communicating with isn't what they seem, you are probably right.
#2 - Really take the time to get to know a person before you give them any information that can lead them to your "offline" identity. Giving someone your last name or phone number may seem harmless, but always err on the side of caution.
#3 - Set up an anonymous free email account like hotmail or yahoo to use for talking to possible suitors. Make sure that you set it up so that your full name is not given out.
#4 - When you are ready to take that "next step" and meet your online paramour face to face, make sure you arrange to meet them in a public place. Tell friends or a family member where you are going and arrange to check in with them while you are out.
That's it, now you're ready to take that plunge back into the dating world. Take a deep breath, put down the ice cream and go enjoy this new phase of your life. You'll be surprised at how much fun it can be!
About the Author:
RoseMary Alberts lives in Florida and has a lifetime of dating experiences in her rear view mirror. As a attractive and young 50-year-old, she enjoyed the single life through most of her twenties and for the last ten years, since the death of her late husband. For internet dating, visit: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/
Read more Articles written by RoseMary Alberts.
Copyright © 2009 RoseMary Alberts
There are very few things in life that are as terrifying, frustrating, rewarding, exciting and just plain crazy as dating; especially if you have ceased to be a "spring chicken" or have been out of the dating scene for many years.
If you've found yourself "back on the market" after being in a committed relationship for many years, you may be petrified by the prospect of dating again. The very idea of having to deal with the "new rules," and trying to figure out where, exactly, you go to meet people in the first place, may be enough for you to say "forget it" and opt for diving into the freezer for a pint of Cherry Garcia, and sitting home with the latest episode of 24 instead. But, it doesn't have to be that way!
In spite of what the modern media has drummed into our collective heads, dating really hasn't changed that much over the years. The basics are all still the same; first dates are generally awkward whether you're a gawky teenager or a successful CEO, and first kisses will give you butterflies at 60 just as they did at 16!
What has changed is how people meet each other. Yes, there will always be the old standbys: bars, chance meetings, blind dates (usually set up by well meaning friends or relatives who haven't a clue) and the frequently disastrous workplace romances. But more and more people are turning to the laptop sitting on their coffee table or the computer on their desk to find romance. From the comfort of your easy chair (and with your ice cream nearby) you can open up a whole new realm of dating possibilities!
Since you're reading this we'll assume you have the basics needed for this contemporary dating adventure (a computer and access to the internet) and can get down to where to look for "Mr. (or Ms.) Right":
Of course, there are precautions you should take when venturing into the sphere of online dating, but as with dating in the "real world" most of them are common sense and they apply to both men and women:
#1 - Listen to your instincts. If your "gut" tells you that the person you are communicating with isn't what they seem, you are probably right.
#2 - Really take the time to get to know a person before you give them any information that can lead them to your "offline" identity. Giving someone your last name or phone number may seem harmless, but always err on the side of caution.
#3 - Set up an anonymous free email account like hotmail or yahoo to use for talking to possible suitors. Make sure that you set it up so that your full name is not given out.
#4 - When you are ready to take that "next step" and meet your online paramour face to face, make sure you arrange to meet them in a public place. Tell friends or a family member where you are going and arrange to check in with them while you are out.
That's it, now you're ready to take that plunge back into the dating world. Take a deep breath, put down the ice cream and go enjoy this new phase of your life. You'll be surprised at how much fun it can be!
About the Author:
RoseMary Alberts lives in Florida and has a lifetime of dating experiences in her rear view mirror. As a attractive and young 50-year-old, she enjoyed the single life through most of her twenties and for the last ten years, since the death of her late husband. For internet dating, visit: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/
Read more Articles written by RoseMary Alberts.
Do's And Don'ts Of A Great Relationship!
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Copyright © 2009 Carol Chanel
The other day I asked a couple I had coached to consciously model a great relationship for his younger brother and girlfriend. I realize a lot of us never knew what a great relationship looked like. We didn't know what to do and not do. We only had in our minds relationships we saw at home, our friend's relationships, those we saw on TV or in the movies, or read about in books.
So what does a great relationship look like? What needs to be present in order for it to be healthy, loving, joyful and passionate? And what must NOT be present? What are the Do's and the Don'ts?
Most people do at least two or three of these Don'ts. Which Don't's do you do? Which one's are you willing to change for the sake of a great relationship?
Don't:
Whine, Pout or Act Pitiful to Get Your Way
Attack, Blame, Demean, Belittle, Get Defensive or Hostile
Refuse to Listen
Become Remote or Cold
Expect to be Entertained - instead get a hobby, read a book, call friends
Expect Them to Make You Happy - it's not up to them to behave in a way to make you happy - that's your job
Manipulate
Expect Perfection
Demand Attention
Judge or Criticize
Set Them Up to Fail
Criticize the Person to Friends - this is a huge No-No
Compare Them to Previous Partners
Get Protective and Shut Down - that's ego stuff, you need boundaries, not protection
Cheat or Lie - including seemingly harmless email connections
So what works better in order to have a healthy, fun, loving and joyful relationship? What do you need to do instead?
Do:
Love them and yourself
Listen and Be Supportive
Cut them some slack
Forgive
Maintain your Sense of Humor
Pitch in with Chores
Make Time for Fun; take vacations - with and without kids
Communicate Lovingly and Honestly about what you need and want, what's working and not working
Be Passionate
Take Care of yourself Physically, Spiritually and Emotionally
Respect them
Have Healthy, Firm Boundaries
Give them space to work things out on their own - if that's what they want
Treat them as the unique individual they are
Spend Time with your Friends - without your partner
When you treat another person in those ways, you create a space where the relationship has a chance to thrive and love can grow.
I'm going to expand on some of the Do's so you can have a clearer picture. Also I'll include some valuable relationship books in the Resource Section.
Communication
Both people need to communicate lovingly, honestly and clearly - all the time. Think about what you're going to say and look to see whether it's clear. So many people just speak without asking specifically for what they need and want. Both people need to listen to themselves and to their partner. I mean sit down, look each other in the eye and talk about what's working and not working.
Listen without getting defensive. No attacking or blaming allowed.
Love
You need to feel like this is the most incredible person you've ever met and are thrilled to be with them. Do your eyes light up when you see them? Does your heart skip a beat? If you're settling because you're scared you won't meet anyone else, do them a favor and get out of the relationship. Then go work on your self-esteem, but let them go be with someone that sees them as their true love.
Support
You need to support each other - have each other's back and believe in the other person. The line "For better or for worse" in most marriage ceremonies was written for a reason. Our partners are going to go through rough times in life. They might not handle it with grace and ease. So be kind when your partner has a hard time. Cut them some slack and see them being healthy, happy and on top again.
Maintain A Sense of Humor
This is as important as all the others. It will see you through so many difficult times and will help you put things in perspective. Not having the new furniture for Thanksgiving is not a reason for being angry. Your husband spilling red wine on the white sofa isn't cause for World War III. (My personal challenge! He's alive today thanks to Scotchguard and paper towels!!) Your wife deciding she doesn't want to spend the weekend with your in-laws isn't a reason to be cranky or pouty.
Take Care of Yourself
This is crucial for a healthy relationship. That might mean spending time with your friends, getting a massage, taking a weekend and getting away from your partner.
And you need to maintain your health and fitness. Don't think that now that you are in a relationship that you can let yourself go. If the man met you and fell in love with a woman who wore clothes that showed her curves, lipstick, perfume, etc. he's going to probably want you to maintain that. Guys if you were fit, dressed nicely and opened the door for her - keep it up.
Respect
You have to respect the person or you will not have a partner for long. If you talk down to the other person or talk negatively about them to your friends, then you aren't respecting them. You need to respect that they are different from you and they think differently than you do. Also you need to respect how the other person feels. So don't belittle them for feeling hurt or sensitive when something happens.
Helping Each Other
I grew up in a home, and thankfully so did my husband, where the men help with the household chores. My father always helped my mother with the dishes, laundry, shopping, whatever needed to be done. My husband does also. My father-in-law, husband and his brothers all do the dishes if the women cook and vice versa. It's called sharing chores.
Guys, the days of being waited on are over. Get up off your butts and help out. And don't whine about it.
And Goddesses, you need to help out with whatever your man needs help with - paying bills, getting receipts together for the accountant, being organized. You know what he needs you to do to make his life easier. Don't say to him, "we need to talk" the minute he comes home from work. Give him a little time to destress.
Not Their Job To Make You Happy
It is not your partners' job to make you happy!! That's your responsibility.
Entertain Yourself
Get a hobby!
I'm always blown away when people tell me they don't have any hobbies. If you don't then you will look to another person to entertain you. That will drain them, they'll get fed up with you and leave. Find something that interests you and develop it.
Have Fun and Take Vacations
You need to have dates and date nights. You need to do fun things every week. Otherwise life becomes all about work and routine. Vacations and getting away are crucial to maintaining a healthy, passionate, joyful relationship.
Kids
If you're in a blended family, Dr. Phil says not to parent your partner's kids. Just support your partner in their parenting job.
Create A Winning Space
If you adhere to the list of do's and don'ts, you are creating a joyful space where the relationship can thrive, each individual will thrive and love can grow.
Be willing to work a little to have a loving, joyful and healthy relationship. The results far outweigh the effort.
Choose to be positive. Choose to have a healthy, fun, loving relationship. Choose to do a little work.
Imagine the possibilities...
(c) Carol C. Chanel
About the Author:
Carol Chanel is a Certified Life Coach who works with people to create new, meaningful and FUN lives. You can learn more about how to create loving and healthy relationships, draw boundaries, not take things personally, be happy to be who you are, and make time for fun by going to her free ezine archive.
http://www.carolchanel.com/rockin_relationships.html
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Copyright © 2009 Carol Chanel
The other day I asked a couple I had coached to consciously model a great relationship for his younger brother and girlfriend. I realize a lot of us never knew what a great relationship looked like. We didn't know what to do and not do. We only had in our minds relationships we saw at home, our friend's relationships, those we saw on TV or in the movies, or read about in books.
So what does a great relationship look like? What needs to be present in order for it to be healthy, loving, joyful and passionate? And what must NOT be present? What are the Do's and the Don'ts?
Most people do at least two or three of these Don'ts. Which Don't's do you do? Which one's are you willing to change for the sake of a great relationship?
Don't:
So what works better in order to have a healthy, fun, loving and joyful relationship? What do you need to do instead?
Do:
When you treat another person in those ways, you create a space where the relationship has a chance to thrive and love can grow.
I'm going to expand on some of the Do's so you can have a clearer picture. Also I'll include some valuable relationship books in the Resource Section.
Communication
Both people need to communicate lovingly, honestly and clearly - all the time. Think about what you're going to say and look to see whether it's clear. So many people just speak without asking specifically for what they need and want. Both people need to listen to themselves and to their partner. I mean sit down, look each other in the eye and talk about what's working and not working.
Listen without getting defensive. No attacking or blaming allowed.
Love
You need to feel like this is the most incredible person you've ever met and are thrilled to be with them. Do your eyes light up when you see them? Does your heart skip a beat? If you're settling because you're scared you won't meet anyone else, do them a favor and get out of the relationship. Then go work on your self-esteem, but let them go be with someone that sees them as their true love.
Support
You need to support each other - have each other's back and believe in the other person. The line "For better or for worse" in most marriage ceremonies was written for a reason. Our partners are going to go through rough times in life. They might not handle it with grace and ease. So be kind when your partner has a hard time. Cut them some slack and see them being healthy, happy and on top again.
Maintain A Sense of Humor
This is as important as all the others. It will see you through so many difficult times and will help you put things in perspective. Not having the new furniture for Thanksgiving is not a reason for being angry. Your husband spilling red wine on the white sofa isn't cause for World War III. (My personal challenge! He's alive today thanks to Scotchguard and paper towels!!) Your wife deciding she doesn't want to spend the weekend with your in-laws isn't a reason to be cranky or pouty.
Take Care of Yourself
This is crucial for a healthy relationship. That might mean spending time with your friends, getting a massage, taking a weekend and getting away from your partner.
And you need to maintain your health and fitness. Don't think that now that you are in a relationship that you can let yourself go. If the man met you and fell in love with a woman who wore clothes that showed her curves, lipstick, perfume, etc. he's going to probably want you to maintain that. Guys if you were fit, dressed nicely and opened the door for her - keep it up.
Respect
You have to respect the person or you will not have a partner for long. If you talk down to the other person or talk negatively about them to your friends, then you aren't respecting them. You need to respect that they are different from you and they think differently than you do. Also you need to respect how the other person feels. So don't belittle them for feeling hurt or sensitive when something happens.
Helping Each Other
I grew up in a home, and thankfully so did my husband, where the men help with the household chores. My father always helped my mother with the dishes, laundry, shopping, whatever needed to be done. My husband does also. My father-in-law, husband and his brothers all do the dishes if the women cook and vice versa. It's called sharing chores.
Guys, the days of being waited on are over. Get up off your butts and help out. And don't whine about it.
And Goddesses, you need to help out with whatever your man needs help with - paying bills, getting receipts together for the accountant, being organized. You know what he needs you to do to make his life easier. Don't say to him, "we need to talk" the minute he comes home from work. Give him a little time to destress.
Not Their Job To Make You Happy
It is not your partners' job to make you happy!! That's your responsibility.
Entertain Yourself
Get a hobby!
I'm always blown away when people tell me they don't have any hobbies. If you don't then you will look to another person to entertain you. That will drain them, they'll get fed up with you and leave. Find something that interests you and develop it.
Have Fun and Take Vacations
You need to have dates and date nights. You need to do fun things every week. Otherwise life becomes all about work and routine. Vacations and getting away are crucial to maintaining a healthy, passionate, joyful relationship.
Kids
If you're in a blended family, Dr. Phil says not to parent your partner's kids. Just support your partner in their parenting job.
Create A Winning Space
If you adhere to the list of do's and don'ts, you are creating a joyful space where the relationship can thrive, each individual will thrive and love can grow.
Be willing to work a little to have a loving, joyful and healthy relationship. The results far outweigh the effort.
Choose to be positive. Choose to have a healthy, fun, loving relationship. Choose to do a little work.
Imagine the possibilities...
(c) Carol C. Chanel
About the Author:
Carol Chanel is a Certified Life Coach who works with people to create new, meaningful and FUN lives. You can learn more about how to create loving and healthy relationships, draw boundaries, not take things personally, be happy to be who you are, and make time for fun by going to her free ezine archive.
http://www.carolchanel.com/rockin_relationships.html
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Understanding Connotations in Tag Lines, Business Names and Monikers
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Copyright © 2009 Marcia Yudkin
The following closer on an email was meant to clinch my interest in an information product, but it did the opposite:
"I would love for you to experience the same kind of worldwide notoriety my clients have enjoyed for years."
As a professional word person, I knew instantly that this expert had overlooked the negative meaning of "notoriety." But before jumping on her mistake, I checked my authoritative sources - dictionaries.
For "notorious," the American Heritage dictionary provides the definition "known widely and usually unfavorably," while the American College Dictionary has as a first definition "widely but unfavorably known." As synonyms for "notoriety," dictionary.com offers "disrepute, ill-repute, shame, infamy."
For certain audiences, especially those that are young, edgy or avant-garde, one can turn established meanings upside down to create a magnetic message. It's easy to imagine rock bands, movie stars or political activists for whom "notoriety" glitters as a goal.
But clearly this expert did not intend to claim that she helps her clients achieve an unfavorable worldwide reputation or to be held in widespread disrepute. And just as clearly, the fact that she misused this word implies she can't be trusted to formulate a winning message for someone seeking acclaim.
Blunders like this can turn up in company or product names, tag lines, monikers (clever nicknames) and in marketing copy.
Very often, people crafting a marketing piece get tired of using the obvious words for their situation and reach for synonyms. To avoid writing "fame" - a simple, direct and ordinary word - this expert used (actually, misused) the more complex word "notoriety." People also get tripped up by connotation when they fall in love with the way something sounds.
For instance, I once thought up the moniker "Grand Poohbah of Publicity. " I loved its combination of sounds. However, when I looked it up, I discovered definitions like this one, in the Free Online Dictionary: "A pompous ostentatious official, especially one who, holding many offices, fulfills none of them." "Poohbah" comes from Gilbert and Sullivan's comic opera, The Mikado, where Pooh-Bah was a haughty character who held the offices Lord Chief Justice, Chancellor of the Exchequer, Master of the Buckhounds, Lord High Auditor, Groom of the Back Stairs, and Lord High Everything Else. Oops, I certainly do not want to come across that way!
Whether you rely on memory or use a thesaurus to jog your consideration of related words, you must always, always take one more step and look up the official meaning of fancier or less common words. If you are aiming at a positive message and you see a negative connotation in any of the definitions, that indicates a high risk of an unintended negative message.
Even if several definitions are positive, one negative definition spoils the word's potential, the same way one rotten tomato mixed with fresh ones ruins a sauce.
The discipline of looking up words not only prevents communication disasters, over time it increases your command of the language. Instead of fighting what words mean to your audience, you increase your ability to nail a thought or idea in powerful names, sentences, nicknames or slogans.
About the Author:
Marcia Yudkin is Head Stork of Named At Last, a company that brainstorms creative business names, product names and tag lines for clients. For a systematic process of coming up with an appealing and effective name or tag line, download a free copy of "19 Steps to the Perfect Company Name, Product Name or Tag Line" at http://www.namedatlast.com/19steps.htm
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Copyright © 2009 Marcia Yudkin
The following closer on an email was meant to clinch my interest in an information product, but it did the opposite:
"I would love for you to experience the same kind of worldwide notoriety my clients have enjoyed for years."
As a professional word person, I knew instantly that this expert had overlooked the negative meaning of "notoriety." But before jumping on her mistake, I checked my authoritative sources - dictionaries.
For "notorious," the American Heritage dictionary provides the definition "known widely and usually unfavorably," while the American College Dictionary has as a first definition "widely but unfavorably known." As synonyms for "notoriety," dictionary.com offers "disrepute, ill-repute, shame, infamy."
For certain audiences, especially those that are young, edgy or avant-garde, one can turn established meanings upside down to create a magnetic message. It's easy to imagine rock bands, movie stars or political activists for whom "notoriety" glitters as a goal.
But clearly this expert did not intend to claim that she helps her clients achieve an unfavorable worldwide reputation or to be held in widespread disrepute. And just as clearly, the fact that she misused this word implies she can't be trusted to formulate a winning message for someone seeking acclaim.
Blunders like this can turn up in company or product names, tag lines, monikers (clever nicknames) and in marketing copy.
Very often, people crafting a marketing piece get tired of using the obvious words for their situation and reach for synonyms. To avoid writing "fame" - a simple, direct and ordinary word - this expert used (actually, misused) the more complex word "notoriety." People also get tripped up by connotation when they fall in love with the way something sounds.
For instance, I once thought up the moniker "Grand Poohbah of Publicity. " I loved its combination of sounds. However, when I looked it up, I discovered definitions like this one, in the Free Online Dictionary: "A pompous ostentatious official, especially one who, holding many offices, fulfills none of them." "Poohbah" comes from Gilbert and Sullivan's comic opera, The Mikado, where Pooh-Bah was a haughty character who held the offices Lord Chief Justice, Chancellor of the Exchequer, Master of the Buckhounds, Lord High Auditor, Groom of the Back Stairs, and Lord High Everything Else. Oops, I certainly do not want to come across that way!
Whether you rely on memory or use a thesaurus to jog your consideration of related words, you must always, always take one more step and look up the official meaning of fancier or less common words. If you are aiming at a positive message and you see a negative connotation in any of the definitions, that indicates a high risk of an unintended negative message.
Even if several definitions are positive, one negative definition spoils the word's potential, the same way one rotten tomato mixed with fresh ones ruins a sauce.
The discipline of looking up words not only prevents communication disasters, over time it increases your command of the language. Instead of fighting what words mean to your audience, you increase your ability to nail a thought or idea in powerful names, sentences, nicknames or slogans.
About the Author:
Marcia Yudkin is Head Stork of Named At Last, a company that brainstorms creative business names, product names and tag lines for clients. For a systematic process of coming up with an appealing and effective name or tag line, download a free copy of "19 Steps to the Perfect Company Name, Product Name or Tag Line" at http://www.namedatlast.com/19steps.htm
Read more Articles written by Marcia Yudkin.
CISSP Advanced Security Certification Can Lead to a Lucrative Career for the Committed Computer Security Professional
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Copyright © 2009 Frank Pines
When the movie Hackers, starring Angelina Jolie, came out in 1995, people had gotten the idea that being a hacker is cool and clever.
There were certain network attacks along the way that started putting people into the mindset that computer hackers weren't as cool as people had once thought. The viruses that infiltrated our desktops helped drive the point home that computer security was a very real issue and a very real concern.
Then 9/11 arrived, and cyber terrorism jumped to the front page of our local newspapers. All of a sudden, cyber terrorists were identified as hackers who spend their days and nights trying to crack open corporate and government computer networks to steal information and to cause havoc.
Within months of 9/11, computer security became one of the hottest career choices in Information Technology (IT) departments around the world.
CISSP is the abbreviation of Certified Information Systems Security Professional (CISSP), and it is one of the more advanced security certifications available to IT professionals.
This is an exam, which forms the premier security certification that is designed or framed and administered by the International Systems Security Certification Consortium (ISC2.org).
This career field and computer security certification is one of the most extensive course studies provided in the IT field. Certified professionals at this level have the necessary skills and the proficiency to handle any situation that may pose a critical threat to the information systems of corporate or government entities. The holder of a CISSP certification generally provides unbeatable IT leadership capacity, in the formation and execution of enterprise security infrastructure.
The most essential core knowledge of CISSP professionals is the ability to effectively maintain System Access Control and Applications Security.
Business Continuity and Disaster Recovery Planning is the next important role of a person who holds this certification.
Beyond the primary areas of education shown above, the CISSP professional is expected to have a solid understanding of Cryptography. If you are unfamiliar with this term, it relates to the security behind the movement of data from one point to another. Cryptography is developing systems that ensure the security of data between two computers, such as with sending and receiving email and when protecting private information within a computer network, such as credit card information of customers. During the Cryptography course work, a significant amount of time will be devoted to the prevention of illegal entry into a computer network and preventing the theft of important data in that network.
Other areas that will be covered in the CISSP course work includes:
Information Security and Risk Management;
Legal, Regulations, Compliance and Investigations;
Operations Security;
Physical (also called Environmental) Security;
Security Architecture and Design techniques; and
Telecommunications and Network Security.
This certification is one of the best-known and most-respected computer network security certifications.
Depending on where one might be seeking a job, people who bring a CISSP certification with them can expect to get a minimum starting salary in the range of $70 to $80,000 per year.
As the course work involved with this certification is quite extensive, one should not be surprised to learn that the actual test would take about six hours to complete.
As with any IT certification, one should take advantage of the practice tests to ensure that one will perform well on the real test on certification day. The test itself generally costs in the range of $ $550, so unless you simply have money to burn, one should be sure that he or she is able to pass the real test, before dropping the money to get the actual certification. As with anything in this life, practice makes perfect... And in this case, certification will ensure a good salary from your current or future employers.
About the Author:
Written by Frank Pines of CDI Communications Inc. - CDI Communications is a leader in implementation of instructional strategies for MCSE, AutoCAD, Sap, Skillsoft, CCNA, MCTS, Cisco, MCITP, MCTS, Microsoft Office, Oracle, Crystal Report, Knowledgenet, SAP, NetG, A+ Training and CISSP Certification. Visit CDI Communications Inc. at: http://www.netwind.com/ OR follow Frank on Twitter at: @cdicomp
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Copyright © 2009 Frank Pines
When the movie Hackers, starring Angelina Jolie, came out in 1995, people had gotten the idea that being a hacker is cool and clever.
There were certain network attacks along the way that started putting people into the mindset that computer hackers weren't as cool as people had once thought. The viruses that infiltrated our desktops helped drive the point home that computer security was a very real issue and a very real concern.
Then 9/11 arrived, and cyber terrorism jumped to the front page of our local newspapers. All of a sudden, cyber terrorists were identified as hackers who spend their days and nights trying to crack open corporate and government computer networks to steal information and to cause havoc.
Within months of 9/11, computer security became one of the hottest career choices in Information Technology (IT) departments around the world.
CISSP is the abbreviation of Certified Information Systems Security Professional (CISSP), and it is one of the more advanced security certifications available to IT professionals.
This is an exam, which forms the premier security certification that is designed or framed and administered by the International Systems Security Certification Consortium (ISC2.org).
This career field and computer security certification is one of the most extensive course studies provided in the IT field. Certified professionals at this level have the necessary skills and the proficiency to handle any situation that may pose a critical threat to the information systems of corporate or government entities. The holder of a CISSP certification generally provides unbeatable IT leadership capacity, in the formation and execution of enterprise security infrastructure.
The most essential core knowledge of CISSP professionals is the ability to effectively maintain System Access Control and Applications Security.
Business Continuity and Disaster Recovery Planning is the next important role of a person who holds this certification.
Beyond the primary areas of education shown above, the CISSP professional is expected to have a solid understanding of Cryptography. If you are unfamiliar with this term, it relates to the security behind the movement of data from one point to another. Cryptography is developing systems that ensure the security of data between two computers, such as with sending and receiving email and when protecting private information within a computer network, such as credit card information of customers. During the Cryptography course work, a significant amount of time will be devoted to the prevention of illegal entry into a computer network and preventing the theft of important data in that network.
Other areas that will be covered in the CISSP course work includes:
This certification is one of the best-known and most-respected computer network security certifications.
Depending on where one might be seeking a job, people who bring a CISSP certification with them can expect to get a minimum starting salary in the range of $70 to $80,000 per year.
As the course work involved with this certification is quite extensive, one should not be surprised to learn that the actual test would take about six hours to complete.
As with any IT certification, one should take advantage of the practice tests to ensure that one will perform well on the real test on certification day. The test itself generally costs in the range of $ $550, so unless you simply have money to burn, one should be sure that he or she is able to pass the real test, before dropping the money to get the actual certification. As with anything in this life, practice makes perfect... And in this case, certification will ensure a good salary from your current or future employers.
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The Holy Spirit Guide
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Copyright © 2009 David Raets
It is hard to argue the fact that no matter what the point of debate, whenever any subject regarding religion is approached there is a real tendency for argument. Bear with me because there is a very real correlation to the subject of this text with the way we raise to the defense of our beliefs. These arguments are not simply against non-believers, or those who do not share our particular faith... these arguments can spring up between the closest of those sharing the same faith. Any point of faith is an extremely personal emotional trigger that has as much of a defense in our core as the need to protect our family and home.
Of all the debates and arguments revolving around belief none is quite as confusing as that surrounding the Holy Spirit. It is easy for people to accept that the Holy Spirit is the word of God handed down to those in ancient times and that the Bible is a resource of those encounters. What is hard for many to truly grasp and accept, even when their minds recite the concept, is that the Holy Spirit is more than just ancient words on a page. The Holy Spirit lives and breathes today as much as centuries ago. The gifts of the Holy Spirit are alive within each of us if we choose to accept this most gracious gift from God.
In fact, the fullness of the Holy Spirit cannot be contained in the written word. Anyone who feels the overwhelming satisfaction of being filled with the Spirit of God knows that. It can hardly be put into words even though we try. We try because we are compelled to share the joy we feel within us and even as we attempt to explain the feeling we have it can be frustrating because we know we fall short. Take heart, however, because you do not have to live up to the feeling through your words. No one can and only those who are touched by the gifts of the Holy Spirit will ever completely understand. You are compelled by the Spirit within you to share the news that God is with us and within us, but you are not expected to change anyone's mind. That is for God himself, and that person to undertake.
One of the reasons so many people have a hard time accepting the presence of the Holy Spirit inside of them is how we live in the hectic world today. Everything is so full of commotion it is hard to "be still". It is hard to listen to that voice that speaks softly to us, guiding our steps and actions. The blessing from God is that if we accept the gift in baptism of the Holy Spirit we can never be separated from it. It can't be taken by any means of man. Nothing can tear it from us - nothing but us ourselves. The only way the Holy Spirit can be taken from us is for us to intentionally deny it, and send it away from us. This is a lot harder too than it sounds, because it takes more than a disgruntled anguished statement of anger towards God made in pain or distress. Some think that because they have cursed God during hard times he is no longer with them but nothing could be further from the truth. God does not leave when things get tough. His Holy Spirit hangs in there even when we are not listening, even when we are angry and in pain, and unless we actually say get out, it will never leave.
Think about that. Even in the deepest despair and pain it is rare for someone to actually say those words. They may ignore the voice inside or be unable to hear it when life is so hectic and crazy that the noise from without drowns out all within, but people who are not completely turned to Satan do not actually say those words.
And the most blessed news of all is that even if someone does say those words God loves them so much that all they have to do is say please forgive me, I believe, and he will rush back in with the strength of a million tides and replenish that broken soul.
The fact that the Holy Spirit is always at work in the world and seeking to reconnect with those who are lost is one of the reasons we are so compelled to share with others how we feel and what we believe. The fruits of the Holy Spirit are always being sown. It is present in the Word of God, it is present in our words, and it is present in our actions. We present a living proof that God exists in the world and is ever caring and loving.
Know that no matter how you present it, whenever you speak of your love and the fulfillment of God's presence in your life, whenever you read from the Holy Bible or others read the Word of God, the Holy Spirit rains down upon them. This Holy Spirit rain will flood their soul and they will hear your words with all of the resonance of God's own voice if they are willing to let it enter.
Keeping that in mind will allow your spirit to flow freely and give you the ability to share the Word of God without argument. Knowing that the greatest Gift from God is that nothing can ever take his Holy Spirit from you and that all you have to do is share what you feel and he will do the rest.
About the Author:
Written by David Raets. For more on the gracious Gift of the Holy Spirit and how it can enter your life or how you can share it, visit The Holy Spirit Guide (http://www.HolySpiritGuide.com)
Read more of David Raets's articles.
Copyright © 2009 David Raets
It is hard to argue the fact that no matter what the point of debate, whenever any subject regarding religion is approached there is a real tendency for argument. Bear with me because there is a very real correlation to the subject of this text with the way we raise to the defense of our beliefs. These arguments are not simply against non-believers, or those who do not share our particular faith... these arguments can spring up between the closest of those sharing the same faith. Any point of faith is an extremely personal emotional trigger that has as much of a defense in our core as the need to protect our family and home.
Of all the debates and arguments revolving around belief none is quite as confusing as that surrounding the Holy Spirit. It is easy for people to accept that the Holy Spirit is the word of God handed down to those in ancient times and that the Bible is a resource of those encounters. What is hard for many to truly grasp and accept, even when their minds recite the concept, is that the Holy Spirit is more than just ancient words on a page. The Holy Spirit lives and breathes today as much as centuries ago. The gifts of the Holy Spirit are alive within each of us if we choose to accept this most gracious gift from God.
In fact, the fullness of the Holy Spirit cannot be contained in the written word. Anyone who feels the overwhelming satisfaction of being filled with the Spirit of God knows that. It can hardly be put into words even though we try. We try because we are compelled to share the joy we feel within us and even as we attempt to explain the feeling we have it can be frustrating because we know we fall short. Take heart, however, because you do not have to live up to the feeling through your words. No one can and only those who are touched by the gifts of the Holy Spirit will ever completely understand. You are compelled by the Spirit within you to share the news that God is with us and within us, but you are not expected to change anyone's mind. That is for God himself, and that person to undertake.
One of the reasons so many people have a hard time accepting the presence of the Holy Spirit inside of them is how we live in the hectic world today. Everything is so full of commotion it is hard to "be still". It is hard to listen to that voice that speaks softly to us, guiding our steps and actions. The blessing from God is that if we accept the gift in baptism of the Holy Spirit we can never be separated from it. It can't be taken by any means of man. Nothing can tear it from us - nothing but us ourselves. The only way the Holy Spirit can be taken from us is for us to intentionally deny it, and send it away from us. This is a lot harder too than it sounds, because it takes more than a disgruntled anguished statement of anger towards God made in pain or distress. Some think that because they have cursed God during hard times he is no longer with them but nothing could be further from the truth. God does not leave when things get tough. His Holy Spirit hangs in there even when we are not listening, even when we are angry and in pain, and unless we actually say get out, it will never leave.
Think about that. Even in the deepest despair and pain it is rare for someone to actually say those words. They may ignore the voice inside or be unable to hear it when life is so hectic and crazy that the noise from without drowns out all within, but people who are not completely turned to Satan do not actually say those words.
And the most blessed news of all is that even if someone does say those words God loves them so much that all they have to do is say please forgive me, I believe, and he will rush back in with the strength of a million tides and replenish that broken soul.
The fact that the Holy Spirit is always at work in the world and seeking to reconnect with those who are lost is one of the reasons we are so compelled to share with others how we feel and what we believe. The fruits of the Holy Spirit are always being sown. It is present in the Word of God, it is present in our words, and it is present in our actions. We present a living proof that God exists in the world and is ever caring and loving.
Know that no matter how you present it, whenever you speak of your love and the fulfillment of God's presence in your life, whenever you read from the Holy Bible or others read the Word of God, the Holy Spirit rains down upon them. This Holy Spirit rain will flood their soul and they will hear your words with all of the resonance of God's own voice if they are willing to let it enter.
Keeping that in mind will allow your spirit to flow freely and give you the ability to share the Word of God without argument. Knowing that the greatest Gift from God is that nothing can ever take his Holy Spirit from you and that all you have to do is share what you feel and he will do the rest.
About the Author:
Written by David Raets. For more on the gracious Gift of the Holy Spirit and how it can enter your life or how you can share it, visit The Holy Spirit Guide (http://www.HolySpiritGuide.com)
Read more of David Raets's articles.
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